The policy states
'No cover under the policy will be provided and instead, liability will be restricted to meeting the obligations as required by Road Traffic Law. In those circumstances, we will recover from you or the driver, all sums paid (including all legal costs), whether in settlement or under a Judgement, of any claim arising from the accident.'
First time I've come across a case where they have pursued the policyholder rather than the driver. I thought they couldn't sink any lower.
Bear in mind they have a track record of incompetence (certainly in my son's case).
Short answer is Yes, they could take you to court. I have yet to find a case that Admiral have taken to court. A lot of people have asked for advice on here and many never come back to explain what happened. It's easy to make a claim through the small claims process and I'm surprised they don't pursue it through the courts. Makes me think they don't want the publicity, or they know they can't justify the size of the claim because they don't challenge the third party claims.
Try not to worry about the threats unless they actually start proceedings. Don't ignore any court letters! Seek advice from a solicitor or Citizens Advice if you do.
Admiral have to submit the claim to court within 6 years of the accident. After 6 years the statute of limitation kicks in and they lose the right to make a court claim. You're at least 4 years into the 6 so far.
Did you sign an indemnity form?
Did you claim for damage to your car, if so did they pay up?
Did the 'claim' appear on your father's record, leading to increased premiums? Did he continue with Admiral, or change insurer?
What have they said about the personal injury claim?
I would ask for a full and detailed breakdown of the £13k. Make it clear that you cannot consider settlement without understanding how the costs are made up. Don't make any commitment to pay!
Wait for their response then challenge each item.
Continue to emphasise the distress it caused by them pursuing your father. Make it clear you told them you were the driver and they shouldn't have pursued him. If you have emails or letters as evidence send them to Admiral. If it was by telephone ask for the recording of the call.
If your father had the claim against his insurance record then that's wrong.
Submit an official complaint to Admiral Complaints dept. - Excessive claims with insufficient evidence, spurious (possibly fraudulent) personal injury claim, pursuing your Dad not you. Registering a claim against your Dad (assuming they did). Causing distress asking for death certificate.
Then take it to the financial ombudsman. I succeeded in getting the claim removed from my record. No cover is provided, therefore no claim is made.
Take your time, drag it out as long as you can. Be insistent. The Ombudsman process is slow. Mine took months.
Admiral made several mistakes including breaking the data protection laws. Look out for the mistakes and pull them up on it.
No guarantee they'll back off, or that the case to will time out but it's worth trying.