Patty1
Member
I’ve been incredibly incredibly stupid and I’m so ashamed and feel such an idiot.
Last week my boyfriend was diagnosed with incurable cancer. I went to his house on Friday to stay the weekend (30plus miles away). I found out he had been meeting and messaging another woman for the past few weeks and obviously I’m absolutely devastated. He basically told me he wouldn’t text her again and I have to put up and shut up. By 7 o’clock Saturday evening, I’d had two hours sleep the night before and hadn’t eaten since finding out about the affair and had at least 4 large glasses of wine. I asked him one question about the affair and he went mad and told me to leave. I was so far away from home and distressed and upset I didn’t even think and got in the car to drive home. After 10mins of driving the mist cleared and I realised what I was doing and pulled over straight way and called my parents for help. By the time they got the the police had found me and I blew 71. I was completely cooperative. Explained what had happened and why I had stopped etc. I have been released on bail pending court in three weeks time.
I’m a single mum of two children, Dad lives 7 hours away, I don’t have anyone to take them to school and on top of everything I’ll lose my job, I’m in so much debt, losing my job will mean I lose my house and god knows what will happen to the kids.
I’m dealing with the emotional fall out of what’s happened as well as my boyfriend of 4 years being told he’s going to die within the year.
I won’t be able to visit or care for him.
I’m just at a loss. Is there any small chance of me not getting banned?, has anyone experienced not being handed a ban?
Last week my boyfriend was diagnosed with incurable cancer. I went to his house on Friday to stay the weekend (30plus miles away). I found out he had been meeting and messaging another woman for the past few weeks and obviously I’m absolutely devastated. He basically told me he wouldn’t text her again and I have to put up and shut up. By 7 o’clock Saturday evening, I’d had two hours sleep the night before and hadn’t eaten since finding out about the affair and had at least 4 large glasses of wine. I asked him one question about the affair and he went mad and told me to leave. I was so far away from home and distressed and upset I didn’t even think and got in the car to drive home. After 10mins of driving the mist cleared and I realised what I was doing and pulled over straight way and called my parents for help. By the time they got the the police had found me and I blew 71. I was completely cooperative. Explained what had happened and why I had stopped etc. I have been released on bail pending court in three weeks time.
I’m a single mum of two children, Dad lives 7 hours away, I don’t have anyone to take them to school and on top of everything I’ll lose my job, I’m in so much debt, losing my job will mean I lose my house and god knows what will happen to the kids.
I’m dealing with the emotional fall out of what’s happened as well as my boyfriend of 4 years being told he’s going to die within the year.
I won’t be able to visit or care for him.
I’m just at a loss. Is there any small chance of me not getting banned?, has anyone experienced not being handed a ban?